Why doesn't he write back any more?
You have met a nice man, exchanged your first text messages - and suddenly the man you love doesn't write back any more? This can cause uncertainty and also sadness. But there is not always rejection behind it. Sometimes there are the simplest explanations for this behavior.
He no longer writes back - possible explanations
If you are in regular contact with your new acquaintance and suddenly there is no longer an answer to your text message or e-mail, this can be for a variety of reasons.
- Often there is simply a time problem behind the lack of an answer. The two of you may have been in close contact on a weekend or some other day off. Everyday work with stress and hectic pace can lead to a situation in which the contact is a little less.
- A used up mobile phone credit or an empty battery can also be a simple explanation for SMS traffic that suddenly the man no longer writes back to messages.
- Men think differently from women in many ways. Your last message may not have included a question. He no longer writes back because he just doesn't see any reason in it at the moment.
- Women are also usually more in need of communication than men. Especially when you are in love, a woman would like to share every thought with a man. Men are a little more pragmatic, especially when it comes to contact via SMS.
- Just like women, men like to make each other a rarity, especially once you have both met. For this reason, a man may not write back directly.
You fell in love and you sent him a message and now wait ...
How to deal with the situation
In addition to the possible explanations, it is also important to know how to deal with the situation.
- You shouldn't press your counterpart. If there is no answer, avoid bombarding the man with text messages or calls. This can become a deterrent to him very quickly.
- Distract yourself. Meet friends or go about your normal everyday life. This can prevent you from looking at your phone every 5 minutes and concentrating too much on waiting.
- If this is difficult for you, simply switch off the mobile phone for a certain period of time or leave the phone at home when you are out and about.
- If you are still waiting for an answer after 2 or 3 days, write an SMS or give us a call. Ask about possible reasons on his part why he stopped calling.
All in all, you shouldn't overestimate the lack of an answer. A face-to-face conversation is often much more meaningful than the number of messages written.
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