Why do men withdraw?
Men are sometimes a mystery to women. It is also difficult to understand why the partner in a seemingly happy relationship suddenly begins to withdraw. What is behind it and how can you give him the freedom he needs?
Having found a partner you love is a great gift. Over time, however, relationships can change and the passion of the beginning becomes a certain routine in which men sometimes withdraw. Behind this is a certain fear of too much responsibility.
Reasons for men to withdraw
- In relationships, sometimes one of the partners tends to be very caring about the other. This does not mean loving support, but very affectionate behavior, the Try to please the other person and also try to make friends or hobbies in favor of the other to neglect.
- This behavior can definitely be perceived as clinging. Every now and then men act like this, but most of the time it is women who in some way become emotionally dependent on their partner and wonder why they are starting to withdraw.
- With women, the strong feelings for the partner develop into the desire to give him a lot Paying attention and organizing a lot around him, the time together too intensify.
- Of course, men also want to be with the partner they love. However, they often express their emotions a little differently and tend less to focus their full attention on the girlfriend.
- The strong emotional expressions of women lead to the fact that men sometimes feel downright oppressed or have the impression that they are responsible for the happiness of their partner. Because with her behavior the woman aims to make the man satisfied or to ensure that that he is in a good mood and if this does not work, she intensifies her care or is herself depressed.
- This great responsibility of being in a sense responsible for the happiness of the girlfriend can put such a strain on men that they begin to withdraw. After all, he also has his own wishes, which he may not want to put aside for his partner.
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Men need freedom
- As a woman, you are responsible for ensuring that you are doing well and that you feel good. This thought should guide your actions. Sure, a fulfilling partnership can add to your life, but a woman who doesn't really like herself can turn into one relationship not becoming permanently happy through the other.
- Likewise, if you complain and react frequently about something, it is a sign that you cannot be satisfied. Here, too, men often withdraw.
- It is therefore important that you create your own interests, revive old hobbies and ideally not see each other every day. Because if you are not together all the time, you will also be less aware of each other's peculiarities and at the same time have the opportunity to implement your own wishes that you have about your life.
- In this way you also give men freedom, because while you are pursuing your own interests, he can do the same.
- In addition, free space can also mean that you can do everyday things (e.g. B. the tube of toothpaste left open) do not keep discussing, otherwise men will withdraw. If disputes arise because you do not agree on how to do certain things together, everyone here should be allowed to put their own ideas into practice if possible. What speaks against it if you do not watch a film together with your friends in the cinema instead of choosing a film together that one of you does not like at all?
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