Hübsch: "Men only want one thing from me"

There can be drawbacks to being pretty

It is easier for pretty people, many say, but there is also one major disadvantage of being pretty, not just that men only want one thing:

• Pretty women are seen as competition by other women, and they are quickly blamed for being stupid and superficial. Successes are envied and simply attributed to the fact that they were bought with physical advantages. Often men only want one thing from you because other women give men the impression that they are easy to get.
• Many men are born hunters; they appreciate showing off their trophies in front of others. A beautiful woman is a coveted trophy, of course, and you will be magically attracted to this type of man.
• There are also men who are different, who do not collect women as trophies. Often these men are rather shy and not very attractive themselves. Most of the time, they couldn't keep up in the hunt for trophies. These men admire you, but do not approach you, because these men assume that they will never be able to land with such a beautiful woman.
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Help when men just want one thing from you

• You don't have to dress up as a wallflower, but you shouldn't show your feminine virtues too much. If it really bothers you that men want only one thing from you, then refrain from clothing that is too feminine.


What do men find attractive in women? - Tips

One has it, the other doesn't! While some women find compliments and ...

• Avoid flirting, because then all dams will break quickly with the lords of creation. For the hunter type this is the halali at the opening of the hunt and for the others the sign to avoid the hunters and thus also you.
• Try more objectivity. Go a little more on the buddy level. This mostly helps when you are very pretty.
• Do not react to clumsy hints with humor, because that is all too easily taken as a signal that you are enjoying yourself. A cool and matter-of-fact rebuff is better than dismissing it with wit and charm.
• Tell all too pushy admirers who quite clearly want the one thing from you, whether they have ever noticed that you also have a mind and that it is not in your bosom.
• Make contact with the rather inconspicuous and shy men who are not on the hunt for you. Emphasize at every opportunity that inner values ​​are more important to you than outward appearances. The type of man who only wants one thing will hardly bother to show inner values ​​or look for them in you.

Overall, as a pretty woman, you should be careful with your behavior. Word of a one-night stand with a colleague or acquaintance will quickly get around because you are after all a coveted trophy, do not bet that the gentleman will be a gentleman and is silent.