Wedding talk with the pastor

What you need:

• Get an idea of ​​what your wedding ceremony should look like

This is how a wedding interview works

• If you get married in church, a wedding interview with the pastor is before yours wedding compulsory. But you have no reason to be nervous. Most of the time, the wedding interview is a nice and relaxed conversation between you and the pastor.

• In general, one can say that the wedding conversation with the Catholics is often a bit more old-fashioned and stricter than with the Protestants. But here too it depends on the pastor.

• How the wedding interview goes depends very much on the pastor. One pastor asks probing questions about your marriage motives and teaches you about marital duties, while the other asks more about how you met and has a nice chat with you.

• In the wedding interview, the pastor usually asks the couple how they got to know each other, why they want to marry in church and what both partners love about each other.

• Especially when you want to get married Catholic, the question often arises whether you want to have children and whether you want to bring them up in the Catholic faith. The Catholic Church would of course like to answer this question with a "Yes!" know answered.


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• Mostly the pastor also asks questions about the time of his own baptism, confirmation or confirmation.

• In the wedding interview, you can also discuss the specific course of your wedding ceremony. The pastor will discuss with you, for example, whether you have chosen a wedding saying how you would like to move into the church, which songs you would like to choose and whether you, your friends and family will help shape the ceremony through readings, music or intercessions want.

• So you should think about how you want to organize your wedding before the wedding interview so that you can discuss the process with the pastor.

• Also think about possible questions to the pastor about the process and how to help shape the wedding ceremony.

• In the wedding interview you will notice whether you like the pastor. If this is not the case, don't be afraid to choose another pastor for your wedding ceremony. After all, the wedding the most beautiful day of your life and the wedding an unforgettable experience.