He's in love with me, but I'm not in him
If he suddenly lights up at the sight of you and stutters helpless sentences, it could be a sign that he is in love with you. That is actually something beautiful - but only if the feeling is mutual. But what if you haven't fallen in love with him?
If he has fallen in love with you, but you don't, then you need a sure instinct. Feelings come and go as you please. Sometimes they strike like lightning, sometimes they creep up unnoticed and sometimes they stay away, it remains with friendly feelings.
He's in love - that's how you deal with it
- It's one of the hardest things in life to give someone theirs love to confess. This is something to keep in mind when he tells you that he has fallen in love with you. Perhaps you notice it in the small gestures and in the looks?
- Then you should seek the conversation, because every sentence or look on your part will be perceived by him through rose-colored glasses. Subconsciously, he interprets something from you into a completely harmless sentence, which makes him think that you are also in love with him.
- Don't assume that this will take care of itself. In most cases this does not happen. So make an appointment with him in a quiet place, where you may not be alone, but definitely undisturbed. It could be a cafe or a park.
You don't reciprocate feelings for him - find sensitive words
- Actually, in such a situation only absolute clarity and honesty help. If you sneak around the bush, he'll keep getting his hopes up.
- Say clearly that there is no chance for one relationship between you there. Look at him attentively during the conversation; it is important that he understands you and does not think that you certainly do not mean any of this.
- Is it your best friend? Then it is particularly difficult for you because you are fond of him, but only on a friendly level. If you like, write him a letter explaining that you would like to remain friends with him, but that a relationship is out of the question for you.
- If it is someone you do not know very well and you are already uncomfortable with the advances, then you will need to find clearer words, difficult as it may be.
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