Turn a one night stand into a relationship

Do not overestimate one night stand at first

That a one night stand automatically becomes a relationship is rather unusual.

• It is therefore important that you stay calm first. Even if you feel the maximum number of butterflies in your stomach, you should now try to keep your head clear.
• If the partner realizes that you want a relationship immediately after the one night stand, you may scare them off. Because officially one was only suitable for a harmless adventure.
• If you find yourself developing feelings for your partner after the night together, ask for their phone number when you say goodbye. If you get this, it can be understood as a sign that the other person is also interested in you.

A relationship takes depth and time

If you have your one night stand number and a relationship is still your goal, here are some things to do:

• Let a few days pass to give yourself and your partner some time to brainstorm. You should only dare to take the next step if you still want to meet again after a while.
• It is best to send an SMS to initially remain as harmless as possible. However, the content of the message can then also be very direct. Just ask if he or she would like to see you again for coffee.
• With this you express that you are interested in more than a quick sex adventure. If he or she responds to the meeting, there is a good chance that the other person will feel the same way.
• Nevertheless, you shouldn't rush anything now, but give yourself enough time to get to know each other. Only then can you clarify whether you really want more of each other. You cannot develop a deep relationship that easily. Above all, this requires time and openness on both sides.
• If it turns out that you are not working as well as you might have wished, don't be too disappointed. It often happens that people who find themselves as physically attractive as possible are no longer interested in the other when they get to know each other better.