He doesn't call after the first date

That Date was great, you had a great evening and had a lot of fun. But now he no longer answers and you have absolutely no idea what could have gone wrong. Everyone has probably experienced this situation before. If you don't know how to react now, these suggestions and options may help.

He does not answer? - take action

• If after the first date you have made out that he will be in touch with you, wait a few days. For many men this is part of the "scam".
• If you're too impatient, you can send a nice text message. Thank you for the lovely evening and try to sound very informal. If he responds to the text message, a conversation will likely start on its own.
• You can do the same if you have his email address. Write a few nice words. You can z. B. write that you are at work and have just thought about him and the nice evening. If he felt the same way, he will most certainly answer.

Radio silence after the first date - create clarity

• If you want to know exactly, you will have no choice but to ask him directly. Call him and ask how the first date was for him and how he thinks things should go next.


When to report after the first date? - Tips for men

After the first date it is usually clear whether there is interest in further meetings ...

• Do not stress if he is still undecided. Many men need a little time to let the impressions of the first date sink in. Don't scare him off with unnecessary squabbles.
• If your date makes it clear to you that they won't be in touch because you're not living up to their expectations, then accept that. Thank you for a pleasant time and accept defeat even if it hurts. Do not run after him or annoy him with text messages and emails. That doesn't go down well with any man.
• However, if he makes it clear to you that he just hasn't had time to get in touch with you, try making another date clear. Please do not put any pressure on him, but try to sound relaxed and casual. Don't be disappointed if it doesn't work the first time.

Basically, you should make it clear to yourself that not every man who doesn't answer right away is not interested in you. Men just think very differently from women and don't worry about the fact that you might be longingly waiting for a sign from him at home. If your appointment has still not been announced after 2 weeks, it can be assumed that he is not interested. Take this and book it as an experience. There are other handsome men too.