How to lure shy men out of the reserve
Men are by no means always conquerors and sometimes rather shy. But that is by no means a reason to give up hope. Show initiative and lure shy men out of their shell. Many men think it is good when women take the first step.
What you need:
- courage
- empathy
- patience
Get a shy man's attention
Many women have problems taking the first step and approaching a man on their own. They believe that as an interesting woman they don't need to address a man. There is a fear of being too intrusive and possibly being rejected. But shy men in particular are excited when women take the initiative. You will feel flattered by the woman's attention.
When you have discovered an interesting man and you have the feeling that he is rather reluctant, the first step is to draw his attention to you.
First of all, try to make eye contact. Keep looking over to him and staying close to him. If he returns your gaze, don't be afraid of an open smile. Be confident and don't be shy. Even if it is not returned, a smile is not a broken leg and always appears friendly.
Find out if the man is interested
If he returns your smile and looks over at you frequently, you can assume that he has noticed you and that he is at least not averse.
Radiate a good mood and watch how he behaves. Interpret small signals like his facial expressions and gestures. Shy men also show their interest in such things. If he finds you attractive, he will lean towards you and show an open expression.
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Make first contacts with shy men
It is always difficult and requires a certain amount of courage to finally speak to a man. But if you find a man really interesting, but he is too shy to approach you, in many cases it is worth taking the initiative. Be confident and lure him out of the reserve!
Good opportunities to start a conversation are when ordering at a bar, in the supermarket, when renting a film or the like. Start the conversation by asking, for example, the name of the cocktail you ordered. Or ask him in the supermarket if he can recommend a certain food that he takes off the shelf.
It is important to appear open, friendly and self-confident. He will be pleasantly surprised by your demeanor and you will quickly notice whether he will respond to your attempted conversation.
Ask about his interests and try to find common ground. However, don't be too intrusive and be mindful of the signals he is sending.
Whether it will eventually become more and be a first Date range depends on how far they are on the same wavelength. In the first few minutes you will intuitively notice whether this is the case and then do not hesitate to give him your telephone number. So it is up to him to take the next step and show interest on his part. You have already laid the foundation for it and taken away his fear of a possible basket.
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