My friend has no more time for me

What you need:

• Self-reliance
• Relationship talk

When the friend suddenly runs out of time

If your friend suddenly runs out of time for you, don't be offended or jump to conclusions. Instead, it is important to first conduct research into the cause.

• Talk to your friend in peace and in a personal conversation (not on the phone) about why he no longer has time for you.
• Don't blame him like "You don't have any more time for me", but convey to him first of all, that you've noticed that the two of you haven't had much time together lately spend. Express your regret and ask why.
• If your friend is not cornered by allegations, the two of you can have a constructive conversation about yours relationship and discuss your current problems.

Here's what you can do for your relationship

The fact that your friend no longer has time for you can have very different reasons, which can be assessed very differently.

• If your friend has an incredible amount of work at the moment and is at the end of his tether, it is It doesn't make sense to put additional pressure on him and accuse him of running out of time for you Has. Instead, support him during the stressful phase and show him understanding.
• Think of it this way: If your friend does not have that much time for you at times, you can also focus on your own interests. After all, they are not made up of an inseparable entity. Do something for yourself! Go to the gym, meet friends, read a good book again. Instead of getting too fixated on your friend, cultivate your own interests.
• When your friend just doesn't have good time management skills, for example because they don't coordinate their appointments properly or because they join you If you have agreed to meet several people at the same time, you should talk to him about it and find solutions to this problem together Looking for. One possibility would be, for example, to reserve two or three fixed evenings a week that belong only to the two of you.
• If your friend suddenly runs out of time for you and your gut instincts tell you that this is due to a lack of interest, confront them. If he blocks and shows no further interest, you should make it clear to him what you want from a relationship. If anything is more important to him in the long term than spending time with you, you should have one separation ponder.