How do I tell him it's over?
Not all relationships last forever, most of the time one of the partners no longer feels comfortable and ends the relationship a short time later. If you want to break up with your boyfriend for certain reasons, you should definitely teach him how to do it very gently and of course tell him directly to his face.
A one-sided breakup is always painful
- Relationships usually fail either with one or both partners. If one partner falls in love with another person or if one of the partners is cheating, that is the case relationship mostly finished. Many partnerships also diverge because the partners no longer have anything to say to each other and everyday life becomes too monotonous. If both partners want to separate from each other, this is usually a rather minor problem. But if only one of the partners wants to break up, a world naturally collapses for the other partner.
- If you are in a relationship and you are no longer happy with your partner or, for example, you have fallen in love again, then of course you have to break up with your partner. Unfortunately, this is not that easy and you don't want to hurt your partner too much.
- Of course, you definitely have to tell him and you have several options. The way your partner deals with the separation of course depends largely on how you tell him exactly.
So tell him gently and appropriately
- Avoid breaking up by text message or letter and take your courage and seek clarification with your partner. It is best to meet in a neutral place and by no means choose your shared apartment.
- Do not say anything to your partner on the phone just yet, but ask them in a friendly and polite manner for a conversation. So your partner still has some time and can start thinking about things for himself.
- At the meeting, you should behave as normally as possible and calmly tell your partner why you want to break up with him in the first place. Make clear your reasons, but avoid hurtful words or insults.
- First, calmly tell what exactly it is about and also give your partner the opportunity to comment on this situation. Suggest to him (if you want to yourself at all) that you remain friends and that you can meet again without obligation in the future (when the feelings have calmed down).
- If you have fallen in love again and would like to break up with your previous partner because of this, you should be completely honest in such a case and tell your reason. This is still better than how your partner learns from their friends.
- After you have given him your reasons honestly and openly and he has also been able to express himself in detail about the separation, it is best to first keep your distance and yourself Friendship of their Ex partner saying goodbye.
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