"Today my ex is getting married"
In the society we live in, it is almost normal for marriages to end in divorce. Marriage is no longer the “bond for life”. For this reason, many couples prefer a "marriage" without a marriage certificate and hope to avoid the pain of separation. But what should you do if the ex remarries? This fact is particularly bitter if you are still single yourself. Why is your ex lucky in love again while you lose out? The aim of this article is to help you accept this fact more easily.
Today my husband is getting married
- Of course, the news that the ex is remarrying comes as a shock. It may be that all the negative feelings come up again. Suddenly anger, hatred and jealousy of the new partner prevail again and you thought that you had overcome the matter.
- The biggest mistake you can make the day your ex gets married is falling into self-pity. Like it or not, you have to accept this fact because you will not be able to change it. Self-pity is also related to a personal choice. So you can choose for it or against it.
- The best way to distract yourself the day your ex gets married is by doing something. So give a friend a call and ask them to spend the day with you.
- Thoroughly plan the day your ex gets married. Give it a solid structure that you should definitely adhere to. This structure will help you and save you from feeling sorry for yourself. On this day, do things that you have long wanted to do. On this day, make a dream come true or pamper yourself. So distract yourself with activities and enjoy the day. Maybe you're doing something you could never do with your ex. But now you are free to do it.
Let go of the ex
- Look ahead on the day your ex gets married. (Attention, when looking into the past, self-pity lurks). What are your goals and plans? What do you want to achieve in your life? If you haven't found the answers to these questions yet, you should think about them the day your ex gets married. So plan the rest of your life on this day.
- Show human greatness by writing a short greeting card wishing your ex and their new wife all the best.
- A little glee is also part of the day your ex gets married. If you want, you can write your ex's partner a letter, but you shouldn't send it. In this letter, wish her all the best and a lot of patience with all the quirks that have been upset you for years. Now you have to deal with it ...
- Take responsibility for the points where your marriage failed. What can you learn from this for future relationships? Even if you don't currently have a firm relationship you shouldn't give up hope. Defend yourself against the thought that you will never fall in love again. In this regard, too, look to your future with optimism and hope.
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