"I disappointed a friend"

The feeling of disappointing your girlfriend is sure to give you stomach ache too. You can cure this stomach ache faster if you try to resolve the situation - and most importantly, apologize.

Have or cite no grounds for justification

If you have the Friendship want to save and attempt a reconciliation, then you should be careful not to cite reasons for your behavior in the same breath with an attempt to apologize.

• Because this sounds as if you were actually right about your behavior in your situation or under the given circumstances, or you could not have acted differently. To your friend, this sounds more like a very weak attempt to pull herself out of the affair again.
• Instead, stand by your disappointing behavior and admit that you misbehaved towards your girlfriend.
• It can also make a big difference whether you want to apologize or apologize.
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Apologize to your friend

If you only apologize to your friend in one sentence and say that you are sorry, then your friend has little opportunity to decide whether to accept the apology. In the worst case, she feels taken by surprise inside and carries the matter around with her inwardly grudgingly - even if you have the feeling that everything is all right again.

• It is therefore better if you apologize to your friend - and not apologize yourself verbally.
• Depending on how serious the incident or If you were disappointed with your behavior, you should also give the other person some time to accept the apology or not.
• In doing so, you are surrendering yourself to the goodwill of the other and giving them to understand that they can now make a free decision.

Disappointments in a friendship can weigh heavily. However, it is better to call things by their names than to brush the matter under the rug.