How do I tell her that I want to get to know her?

The first contact - it's already done

• You can never predict these moments: those in which you run into a certain person who may first leave you speechless. Feel free to give in to your feelings, because in most cases there will be a good reason that you find the woman in question very likeable or attractive. If you are single, something more serious could develop from an interesting acquaintance. Do not deceive yourself about this possibility.
• What you will say to the woman is almost of secondary importance; it is the interpersonal 'chemistry' that will determine whether you will get to know each other better or not.

Show interest - so tell her

• In order to attract the attention of the woman you are interested in, you should get in touch with her and say something to her. When making your decision to get to know this woman better, don't rely solely on her looks or other superficialities do, but want to address them based on your sympathetic charisma or your lovable smile, your direct success is far greater more likely.
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• In such a case, what you say to her is almost unimportant as long as it comes across as sincere and sympathetic to her. Open and sincere interest is a better basis for a long-term acquaintance or even one relationship than the obvious chase for a sexual adventure based only on superficiality.
• Of course, you should always be polite, but still not let go of a certain form of determination and a healthy dose of self-confidence. In some situations in life you simply have to show initiative if you want to keep track of someone. Perhaps now is the decisive moment when you should say something. Take action and speak to them.


How do I address you? - This is how it works in the subway

You see your dream woman in the subway and don't know how to address her ...

• If you're understandably wondering what the best thing to say to that person in order to look interested but not weird, do so You can of course add a few thoughts to potential topics of conversation, but you should be spontaneous and let things take its course permit.
• For example, you could say that you value the author of the book you are reading, too - if so corresponds to the truth - or to other similarities in interests or supposed hobbies and preferences tie in.
• Be attentive and notice the details on the woman that interests you. Perhaps this will help you find common ground that could be the subject of your first conversation.
• If all of this is a bit too cumbersome for you or if you want to say something to her as soon as possible, then be honest and tell her that you find her likeable and - even if it is not really your way - that you would like to invite.