VIDEO: The ex no longer answers
Accept the end of your relationship with your ex
If the ex stops calling, it can be painful for those who still want contact.
- However, first ask yourself why you are actually contacting your in the current situation Ex partner want to have. Be really honest with yourself when doing this. If you're sad that he stopped calling because you still want him back, your first goal should be the end of yours relationship really to accept inside.
- This inner acceptance that the relationship is over, of course, means burying hopes, and it is difficult at first. However, once you have accepted the end of your relationship, you will feel much better, as you will then be back on yourself can concentrate, are no longer in the inner dependency and despair and also no longer wait for your Ex-boyfriend calling.
Anyone who no longer answers has their reasons
- If your ex-boyfriend stops calling, there are reasons. Maybe he knows you're not over him yet, maybe it hurts too much to talk to you. Or maybe he just doesn't want to have any more contact with you. Don't ask yourself why he doesn't answer, just accept it.
- You can love, Affection, Friendship or do not force whatever you want from him. So if you accept his wish to be banned from contact, it is not just a sign that you as a person respect him with his wishes. You are also doing something good for yourself with it.
- Realize that you are a great person. You don't need to impose yourself on another person, and it won't work. Those who do not want to contact you on their own will never be able to make you happy and are simply not the right person for you. At some point you will realize this simple truth and meet someone who wants to be close to you.
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So go your own way again
- Under no circumstances should you call your ex or show up "randomly" in places he is. Don't make yourself unnecessarily small by chasing after him, instead try to build your self-esteem. If the thought of never calling him again is unbearable, resolve every day not to call him today. So this task does not seem unsolvable to you and you will notice that it gets easier and easier with time.
- Tell yourself every day that life goes on and on and that there is always something to be learned from even the most difficult phases, even if you don't see what now.
- Surround yourself with friends and do lots of things to distract yourself.
- Above all, do what you feel like doing now. Be selfish for once and think about yourself. Do something with people who are good for you and give up on chores with people you don't feel like doing without feeling guilty.
- Also try to enjoy the time alone.
- Set goals and try to advance your own projects that you may not have paid enough attention to in the partnership. This can be the pursuit of certain hobbies, professional goals, a new look or a change of residence. Do what is good for you.
