How do I get to know him?

This is how you get to know him directly 

Approaching your crush directly takes a lot of courage. In return, you will get to know him all the faster - and you will immediately know where you stand.

• It sounds crazy at first to just say what it's about: "I would like to get to know you!" 
• Few people are so direct, which is mostly due to the fear of rejection. Nevertheless, it can be incredibly refreshing to be so honest - even for the person addressed.
• So that the statement does not remain in the room, it makes sense that you make a specific suggestion: "Would you like to go out for a coffee with me next week?" 
• Do you like this idea but are you afraid of public embarrassment? Best to watch it when you are alone. Or ask him via a social network in the chat.


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Tips for the shy - this is how it can be done more inconspicuously

If the direct method does not suit you, there are small detours to try to get to know him.

• Find out which bars or clubs your crush is visiting. It's easy to get closer in this relaxed atmosphere.
• Think about where you can ask him for help. This can be learning for an exam or a topic that he is very familiar with. For example, if he's an amateur astronomer, you can ask what the probability is that the earth will be hit by an asteroid.
• Try to be placed in the same workgroup as your crush. This can just as well apply to a presentation at school or university as it is to a working group at work.
• If you've noticed you share interests, let him know. This can work through social networks, but also by leafing through a magazine that interests both of you.