Arm around her

The first date is coming up - stay relaxed!

• Getting excited before the first date is totally understandable, but you don't need to drive yourself unnecessarily crazy. It's only there to see if they are in harmony or not. It may turn out to be a relationship developed, but it can also stay at this one meeting. And if it doesn't fit, it's not the end of the world and it certainly wasn't the last date you had.
• Don't forget to have fun in the whole thing. Take a deep breath, don't think too much, and try to relax. Imagining something already now, that doesn't make any sense, it's just the first meeting, nothing more. You will see how everything else develops. Enjoy the moment and don't be afraid to be rejected because you have nothing to lose.
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• Very important: stay yourself. Do not try to pretend and slip into any role. This will not only make you feel uncomfortable, your companion will also quickly see through it.
• You are probably also wondering where the date should take place best. A visit to the cinema would be less advantageous for the first date, as you cannot chat here and therefore also cannot get to know each other. A café is better suited for this. So you can get to know each other in peace and, if it doesn't fit, you have the opportunity to leave at any time.
• A walk is also perfect for a first date. That's even better than the cafe. It can always happen that suddenly you have nothing to say to yourself that wouldn't be so bad when you go for a walk.


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"Arm around her": body contact - yes or no?

• Whether or not you make physical contact at the first meeting depends on the situation. When you notice that you are comfortable with each other, that you get along well, that you laugh a lot or when you go on a date If it takes a long time and it doesn't seem like either of you is about to leave, you could try the first physical contact to manufacture.
• But don't overdo it, take it slowly. Don't put your arm around her right away. For example, you could touch the woman's hand after she has put it aside. You can touch her shoulder when you want to show her something or when you are laughing together. Then you can already see how she reacts to it.
• If she lets you do that, and maybe even wants to hold your hand, then you can take it a step further and put your arm around her. You will notice whether your companion wants it or not. Perhaps you will soon be able to tell your buddies: "I just put my arm around them" and who knows, maybe there will be a kiss when you say goodbye.

It is therefore important that you stay relaxed, that you do not take the whole thing too seriously and that you do not rush anything. Be attentive and pay attention to the woman's signals. And if it doesn't work out, don't hang your head, it will definitely not be your last Date.