Should I write to you?
It sparked a lot and a second date should follow soon. But what is the best way to contact them and how long should you wait after the meeting to write to the other person? Create your own rules and combine several communication media to leave a lasting impression and invite you to go on a second date.
How and when to write to the other?
The way you contact us depends heavily on your personality. The classic way to stay is with a phone call, shy people are better advised with a text message or even a letter.
- The personal call is the best way to say thank you for a nice evening and to ask for a second meeting. Ideally, you have the landline number. Keep it short, however, to avoid embarrassment or tripping hazards. Propose an appointment and don't be tempted to chat for hours - use the next date to get to know each other better.
- When the answering machine is on, leave a message with your telephone number and a request to call you back. If the other person does not answer, you already know that a second date will probably not take place.
- Do not wait too long before calling, in order not to unintentionally signal a lack of interest. More than two days should not go by, it is best to contact us the next day. By the way: women shouldn't stay passive, but pick up the phone themselves.
- The SMS after the date is becoming increasingly popular. You could be in touch shortly after the date. Remain neutral, you could write something like: That was a nice evening. Continued on??? ". Alternatively, you could write, "Come home safely". But be careful: men might find the quick contact to be restrictive. Also, be careful not to write emotional love messages in the middle of the night.
After the first date it is usually clear whether there is interest in further meetings ...
You should make contact in an original way
- The next day, a postcard, e-mail or even a letter offers the ideal opportunity to invite you to the next meeting. Before you write to the other person, take your time so that you can find the right words.
- In stores you will find many original postcards with individual motifs and cheeky lettering. Use this to get in touch with a casual slogan or a funny motif. This method is particularly suitable for open-minded and creative people.
- The cover letter with one letter is stylish and romantic. He looks personal, a little old-fashioned and shows that you care about the other person. Don't write a love letter, but explain why you want a second date. Suggest a date and location for the meeting and don't forget your contact details. In the best case scenario, you can already enclose a flyer from a restaurant or the menu of a restaurant.
- The e-mail, which you can enhance with suitable smilies, looks more modern. Here, too, the following applies: Don't overdo it and keep it as short as possible.
Before you get in touch, you should assess whether that Date went well. If you had the impression that the other person did not like you, you should make the contact very neutral. The more emotional and hot the first date, the cheekier you can be.
