To be approached by guys
You are never approached by boys and often stand around alone at parties and other occasions? You can do something about that. You just need the right attitude and some courage.
What you need:
- self-consciousness
- Open-mindedness
What makes boys tick
- If guys never approach you, it may be because you are subconsciously sending out the wrong signals.
- For example, your shyness may be misunderstood as arrogance or disinterest. This can easily happen if you avoid eye contact with the guys or if you don't dare smile at guys. In this case, guys may misunderstand your behavior and not dare to speak to you.
- Girls are also approached less often by boys when they are always together in a large group of girls. If you always stand together with five friends cackling in a large group, this unsettles many boys and they do not find the courage to approach you, even if they are interested in you.
- Guys therefore first of all need clear signals that encourage them to take the first step and to speak to you.
Address and be addressed
- First of all: Many boys are shy and are therefore happy when they are approached by a girl themselves. So if you see a nice boy, take it easy and speak to him!
Talk to pretty boys - that's how it works
Would you like to speak to handsome guys, but don't dare? It's not like that ...
- If you'd rather wait for someone to speak to you, send out the right signals! Smile confidently at the boy!
- Make eye contact with a smile every now and then and see how the other person reacts to it.
- Signal that you are ready to talk! Anyone who is in constant conversation with their best friend is not approached so quickly.
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