In love with a good friend

In love with your good friend - say it

Everything is different from one day to the next. You can feel butterflies where they used to be Friendship was. Even when you think about your good friend, your heart beats faster and you cannot turn your thoughts away from her.

• Then at the latest you should admit that you have fallen in love with your good friend. Even if this thought scares you at the beginning, put up with it, because no one can control feelings.
• In the first few days of being in love, however, you should hold back, do not fall around the neck of your good friend or kiss her head over heels. It is important that you first learn to come to terms with the new feelings yourself.

Until you can stand by your feelings, it is important that your previously good friend does not notice anything. Try to control the butterflies in your stomach, even if it's far from easy.

Stand by your feelings

When the time comes and the infatuation lasts, you should also let your good friend know about it.

• Perhaps she has noticed something for a long time, because women have a lot of sensitivity and intuition. So it may well be that she noticed something about your behavior for a long time.
• Find a suitable place and a good time to tell her how you feel. Under no circumstances should you just text them and say that you have fallen in love with her.
• Take the woman in your heart out to dinner and, as the beautiful evening progresses, tell her that your feelings for her have changed. Even if you are scared, be honest and tell her that you are in love.
• Even if your good friend may be speechless at the beginning, she now knows how you are. Give her some time to deal with the important information. Talk to her and reassure her that there is no way that your friendship will change. Because many people are afraid that the good friendship will be ruined if it is with the relationship cannot work or feelings cannot be returned.
• She may wish for a little time to think it over; if you really care about the woman, you should give her the time she needs. But please don't be surprised if she pulls away from you at this stage.

Unfortunately, nobody can predict whether a good friendship can really become more. Don't be too disappointed if it doesn't work out, after all, you've revealed your feelings and there is nothing more liberating. Because those who keep their feelings to themselves can suffer more from them than from rejection.