How do you know a boy is in love with me?
The first love in life is usually very exciting. If you're wondering if a boy is in love with you, you probably already have the first signs perceived that may indicate or you simply wish that your dream prince is also in you fell in love.
Boys and girls often react differently in their behavior when they have fallen in love. And often the signs are not clear how you could tell that a boy has fallen in love with you.
Boys can be shy
- Just like a girl, a boy can of course be shy and he won't blurt out that he fell in love with you.
- For boys, especially during puberty, the peer group - i.e. the group of the same age in which they move - is very important. Therefore, he or she may base his behavior towards you on how his peer group thinks of you.
- For example, this could lead to behavior that you do not think that a Boy is in love with you, for example when he laughs at her in the presence of his peer group as well as they others. The peer pressure at that moment is then greater than the courage to show you affection.
- Even if you notice that a boy hardly dares to speak to you or openly seek contact with you, this can be a sign that he is in love with you. The shyness and the insecurity are then possibly stronger than the desire to come into closer contact with you.
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Possible signs of being in love
- Or, you may find that a boy in your class is saying nice things to you or making an effort to please you with remarkable frequency. He's hardly going to do that unless he has at least a little crush on you.
- Perhaps the boy in love will send someone from his circle of friends who should then first test in a conversation what you actually think of his friend. Then you may observe that the two later discuss something apparently very mysterious.
- Just like in adults, the redness of the face can also indicate that strong feelings are at play beneath the surface. So if a boy takes you out for an ice cream or a party and gets a little red in the face, he may already be in love with you.
- Often it is not easy to deal with the first fall in love. Then trust your inner feeling as to whether or not you want to reciprocate a boy's affection.
Since people are different, there can be very different signs that point to being in love. Therefore, do not interpret a sign too quickly and give the other a little time to draw attention to you.
