"A Coke with you"?
"Do you fancy a cola?" is not a very successful invitation to a first date. It gives the impression that you are not particularly interested in the person and that it would be okay to decline. Leave an impression on the lady of your heart with a good dose of self-confidence and a suitable speech, so that she has no choice but to say "yes".
Do you fancy a cola?
If you are no longer a teenager, you should refrain from such wording.
- If you think about a place and time for your date in advance, you don't have to think twice about a personal conversation.
- For your invitation, you should wait for a nice, sunny day. Make sure the lady you are romantically interested in is in a good mood. You too should be in a good mood yourself; if you had a bad day, this will be reflected in your body language.
- A smile and a little self-confidence work wonders. Take a deep breath and speak in a firm voice. Important: Your wording should make it clear that you would be very happy about a date.
- Be as direct as possible, nobody can read your mind. Use phrases like "I like you" and "I want to get to know you better". Even better: "I want to have a cup of coffee with you tomorrow / watch a movie". Name a specific point in time.
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Invitation ideas for the shy
- Even in the age of smartphones and tablet PCs, nothing speaks against a written invitation. This seems a little mysterious, and you also have the opportunity to fine-tune your formulation. Nevertheless, the risk of rejection is higher with a written invitation.
- Choose a neutral letterhead or a card that is as neutral as possible, do not use hearts or other love symbols, you don't want your counterpart with overly exuberant emotions scare.
- Make your counterpart curious by, for example, inviting them to "gaze at the stars". Formulations like "ne Cola", on the other hand, quickly appear unkind and uncreative. Come up with extraordinary ideas so that your potential date can't say no.
- You could also incorporate a poem for that special romantic touch.
- Ask for a written answer so that you don't have to wait in vain on the big day.
An invitation to "ne Cola" doesn't have to be a bad thing, but adapt your wording and speak in full sentences. So show your respect and appreciation Date opposite to.
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