How do I find a partner?

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The number one basic problem for (almost) everyone who doesn't have one: How do you find the right partner? Can such a question be answered at all or is every answer just a dubious attempt to make the impossible possible? There are certainly no general rules for finding a partner, but a few basic ideas can perhaps help make personal happiness a little faster.

Love is there for everyone. Everyone will find the right partner at some point.
Love is there for everyone. Everyone will find the right partner at some point.

What you need:

  • Oneself!
  • A small glimmer of hope

Finding a partner is just a coincidence anyway

  • The best usually comes unexpectedly. Certainly true. You certainly know a story of yourself or friends in which exactly then the right partner was found when making the decision to stay single for ever, straight had fallen.
  • The reason for this is that precisely when you are not looking for a partner, you are most relaxed and easy-going. Because then they look particularly attractive. Confident but not arrogant.
  • The top rule when looking for and finding a partner is to first turn off your head and relax. How exactly is, of course, up to you.

Where exactly do you look for a partner?

  • Of course, that depends entirely on you. If you like to spend a relaxed evening in the bar, you shouldn't necessarily look for your future partner in a technodisko.
  • Look where you can also feel comfortable. Otherwise you will not be able to switch off your head and relax (see “top rule”).
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  • Very few people react positively to spontaneous invitations on the street for a coffee or dinner. On the contrary, most will feel harassed. So look for a partner where you can get such invitations or Expect dates or the like too. For example at a singles party, a club or a bar.
  • Everything else is of course not excluded. The chance of a good opportunity to get to know someone is then only of course much higher.

Find a partner for a single party

  • Single parties, speedDating, Blind dates and the like are now in abundance. Especially in big cities you will find a wide range of options. Most visitors will be like you: you are single and want to find a partner.
  • So don't be too shy. Statistically speaking, three visits should be enough for you to find your perfect partner.

Look for a partner on the internet

  • What used to be considered rather unusual is nothing new nowadays. Many people (certainly also in your area) have got to know your perfect partner for life or life on the Internet.
  • Social networks such as Facebook, StudiVZ, Who-Knows-Who and the like are free and uncomplicated as long as you are not just sending spam emails.
  • Be careful with payment platforms. Many providers take advantage of the desire for the right partner to put dubious offers online. Many profiles (especially of women) have been falsified online by the provider in order to attract more customers.

What if the right partner has been found? Enjoy!

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