I don't dare to write to him

How to banish the phrase "I don't dare"

• "I don't dare" is a sentence that you may later regret. In retrospect, one often regrets things that one does not do in life because of a lack of courage. And whatever it is - whether the birth of a child, an important operation, etc. - Of course, certain decisions also cost a lot of effort.
• But also resp. In retrospect, decisions that involve fears or even potential pain that have to be overcome are often the best decisions. If its about love and partnership or even just a flirtation, you have absolutely nothing to fear - except maybe the heartache at some point if the thing falls apart. But no one is immune from this, and after all, you cannot run away from love for the rest of your life either.
• So if you're thinking, "I don't dare to write to him," then consider what you could be missing out on if you don't and he doesn't either.
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• Maybe he doesn't know about you, maybe he has had bad experiences, maybe he doesn't dare to write to you because he thinks you are a size too big for him. Jump over your shadow and write to them.
• In the worst case, he won't react. It's hard to imagine him writing back to make fun of you. If so, you at least know that you certainly haven't missed anything, and you don't have to blame yourself for the next few years as to what would have happened if.


Don't have the courage to write to them - this is how you overcome yourself

You don't have the courage to write to her - the pretty girl from school -? As …

Depending on what kind of guy he and you are, the way you write to "him" can of course be very different.

This is how you can write to him

• If you have the option of writing to him with a small, handwritten letter or note, it is much more personal than an email or text message. Be brief. There will be enough time for long love letters later. Be unobtrusive, but make it clear that you would enjoy some activity together.
• For example like this: “Spring has come with you. Do we want to enjoy it together over a picnic? Saturday 2 p.m., on the flower meadow at Hintertupfinger Weiher? "