I'm 13 and I want a boyfriend
Your first friend usually does not fall from a tree to your lap like a ripe apple - if you are 13 years old and think that now is the time for you Friend has come, whom you want to get to know within a short period of time, then it is important to keep your eyes and ears open to make your wish come true at some point to implement.
Before taking any action, however, you should ask yourself what your ideas are about a relationship connect and which type of boy could therefore be the right one for you. Only then can you search specifically and don't fall for the show-off types if you feel like someone completely different.
Commit at age 13
- First of all, ask yourself what meaning a friend would mean to you. You just don't want to go to the movies or the swimming pool alone or all the time with the girl clique or look for them Someone as a counterpart, with whom you can also exchange your deepest thoughts and who too want?
- You could also think about which type you find interesting in the first place. Is it more of the show-off type who constantly presents himself in new clothes, plays around with the latest cell phone model and apparently thinks he is very good?
- Or is it more of the shy boy type who seems rather reserved, doesn't often speak and tends to stay in the background? Such boys sometimes exude much greater reliability and willpower and can therefore be particularly interesting.
- At the age of 13, you will probably not want to look for a partner for life and commit yourself permanently - Of course, it cannot be ruled out that your childhood sweetheart may also be your future life partner will. So there is no harm in looking for someone with whom you can imagine more than just going to the cinema together.
How long you can go out at the age of 13, you could very much with reference to the Youth Protection Act ...
Find the right friend
- When you are 13, you have many options for making friends. You may find the guys from the higher grades more interesting than the guys from your own grade. So you shouldn't miss an opportunity to attend parties where you won't just run into your own classmates.
- Of course, the Internet also offers many opportunities to make new acquaintances. However, if you meet anonymously in the chat, you should be very careful not to reveal your private information. After all, you have no way of knowing who you are actually dealing with and who is behind a nickname.
- If you haven't met a boy personally but on the Internet, then you should find out For safety reasons, arrange to meet at the first meeting in a busy place and under no circumstances do so with the others Visit home.
- Of course, you can also throw a party yourself and invite the boy you may have already had an eye on. Perhaps it happens "by chance" that your party is not so well attended and the other guests say goodbye after a short time...
If you're only 13 and looking for a friend, you should still be clear about which type you find interesting in the first place. Don't look for someone just to have a boyfriend in the first place, because friendships like this often don't last long.
