Do I still love my ex?
When you are wondering whether you still love your ex or your ex and those feelings maybe even dragging you into a new partnership, it's time to part with old feelings. This is not always easy, but it is very necessary if you think you want to enter into a new partnership.
Break away from old feelings of love
When you were once a loving and perhaps passionate person with someone relationship it will not be easy for you to completely detach yourself from this person. Therefore, at the end of the relationship, do not ask yourself that all feelings are over in one fell swoop.
- Perhaps you've already seen that from the old days love seems to have become a real hatred. With that you are now dragging an equally strong feeling about the Ex partner around, just with a negative sign.
- To avoid this, you should use the separation or divorce not to be carried out as a mud fight, but to be aware that everyone may have contributed a part to the fact that at some point it no longer worked.
- After a relationship has ended, there should be radio silence for a while, even if you have told yourself that it is safe to stay friends. However, it is all the more difficult to end the separation emotionally if you continue to have regular contact immediately after the separation. It is better to keep a gap of six months. When you meet again, do so in new roles.
- If, even after a long time, you are not sure whether your ex-partner is still not yours love, ask yourself what you would be missing if it no longer existed in your life would. Does this create a big emotional gap or is it more about the fact that he is still available for small favors?
- When you have entered into a new partnership and always looking for similarities between your ex and are looking for the new partner, you may not have completely left the old partner solved. Then focus your gaze on what makes your new partner particularly special.
Ex-girlfriend has a new one - this is how you break up
When your ex-girlfriend has a new partner and you laugh happily with him ...
Say goodbye to the ex-partner
- If you have children with your ex-partner, you will still be parents together even after a separation. In this case, in particular, it is important to clearly separate the role of parents and partners. Parents will stay with you for life, but the partnership is over.
- A separation ritual undertaken together can be very helpful to end the partnership emotionally. Some parishes even offer appropriate divorce rituals.
- If your ex is not ready for a mutual separation ritual, you can commit a symbolic act for yourself as well. Take an object that represents the past relationship and burn it symbolically.
How helpful do you find this article?
