My ex wants me back

Separations are part of life. But both partners don't always hold that separation for the right decision. Sometimes you regret the falling apart some time after the breakup relationship.

Reasons for going back to the ex

If your ex wants you back, there could be a number of reasons.

• You ended the relationship and that Ex partner still loves you.
• Her ex ended the relationship, but has now realized that the breakup was a mistake.
• The relationship was long ago and after several attempts at other relationships, yours is Ex-partner became aware of what he had in the relationship with and in you, which is why he returned to you want.


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• Another, albeit less beautiful, possibility is that your ex cannot be alone and just wants you back so as not to be alone.

Ex wants to get back to you - do you?

Now that you know your ex wants you back, the decision is yours. Would you like him back too? Or would you prefer to go your way alone or with another partner by your side?

1. Review the former relationship. What was beautiful, what was less beautiful? For what reason did you split up at the time?
2. Now think about whether the reasons that led to the end of the relationship have changed in the meantime. If so, the next question is whether you can forgive your past shortcomings and start all over again.
3. If the reasons for separation haven't settled yet, consider whether you can deal with these quirks or problems in another relationship with your ex.
4. Finally, you should ask yourself the question: Do you still love your ex-partner and do you want your ex back too?

Whatever your decision, remember: Any decision can be reversed if you realize that it wasn't the right one for you after all.