The end of a friendship

Why a friendship breakup is often dramatic

• Many people find it difficult to break out of attachments - like one Friendship - to solve. There was a common story, perhaps shared secrets. There was affection, pastime.
• Now you want to distance yourself, to end the friendship. Try one separation in affection. Even if it's so much more difficult than separating in drama. Most people find it easier to show their anger than to show their grief.

Shapes for a happy ending

• A friendship is best ended consciously, not by creeping away. Take responsibility for your decision. You can stand by it.
• A friendship is not ended by email, not by SMS or on the phone. If it is difficult for you to end the friendship in a face-to-face conversation, perhaps out of fear, but the To lose your temper, write a letter (even if you haven't written one in years to have).
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• You do not have to divulge everything that led to the step of ending the friendship. But please don't lie.


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Shaping a happy ending to friendship

• First, share your decision in calm, clear words. For example, that you no longer want to meet with him alone (but you won't avoid him when you meet at parties). Or that you will distance yourself from him, but also from your mutual circle of acquaintances.
• If you have a need, share your reasons for doing so. For example, an argument in which it became clear to you that you represent too different perspectives. A friend's addiction can also be a perfectly legitimate reason to distance yourself. Don't blame yourself, talk about yourself and your feelings.
• Make a positive ending. Thank you for the time you spent together, for your support, or whatever was special to you. Because that's important, and this dying friendship definitely deserves it.