Men don't want a relationship

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It is generally said that men are less capable of relating than women. This certainly does not apply to everyone, but what can you do as a woman if you only ever find men who do not want a relationship?

A relationship can be so beautiful.
A relationship can be so beautiful. © S. Hofschlaeger / Pixelio

Why men don't want a relationship

Men may be with women and have fun, but most men are afraid of - at least one steady - relationship. This is mainly due to the following facts:

  1. Men feel constricted very quickly. Even if this is not the case, many men already feel controlled or restricted in their freedom when they should let them know when they are going to leave.
  2. Men are generally afraid that they will lose their friends and hobbies during a relationship and only have to be with the woman.
  3. Another reason men don't want a relationship is because they want to be financially independent. In a relationship, they always think that they have to spend the money on the woman too.
  4. Leisure time activities are also different between a woman and a man: men have one different tastes in film and music and men generally want to spend the evening differently than women.
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How you can convince the men anyway

Now, if you want to convince a man to have a relationship with you, all you have to do is read through the facts above about why men don't want a relationship. And then you have to make it clear to the man that none of this will happen in your mutual relationship:

  1. Click the man that you still want your own girlfriends and hobbies. Make it clear that there is no way you want to spend every evening with him.
  2. Also explain to him that as an emancipated woman you want to have your own bank account and do not want to mix the money of the two.
  3. Show the man clearly the advantages of a relationship: you could keep cooking him his favorite food (which is why you want to know when he'll be home) that becomes the household Led together (it's more fun and saves time), with a shared apartment, some costs can be saved and cooking together also has potential for savings.
  4. Once the man has understood the benefits of a relationship, he no longer falls under the category: Men don't want a relationship.

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