In love with a married man
Love usually turns out differently than you think. You can't always control your emotions, and then you can end up liking a man who is already married. When you are in love with a married man you should make sure that you are not just having an affair with him. Because that would only mean a temporary relationship in which you would always have to cut corners.
What you need:
- Time
- A clear head
Are you unhappy in love?
- When you find yourself in love with a married man, you have two options. You can withdraw completely from the man's environment and try to get him out of your head, or you can seek his proximity and aim for them to come closer.
- Try to clarify for yourself if you are really in love with this man or if it is just a strong physical attraction. If so, you shouldn't get involved with a married man.
- Get closer to the man and one will emerge relationship, be sure to find out if he is really ready to give up his marriage for you. If he still does not give up his wife after a few months and puts you off with excuses, you should draw a line.
- Otherwise you will only be this man's "affair" and you can never just be with him spontaneously. If you feel bad, there will hardly be moments when he can be with you spontaneously to catch you.
- Try to find out why, as a married man, he is willing to get involved with another woman. Does he really no longer love his wife? Then one should separation not be a problem, or is he just looking for something exciting?
- Think of his wife. How would you feel if your husband had a relationship with another woman?
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Do you really want the married man?
- If you are in love with a married man and he is really ready to part with his wife, you should always stand behind him during the separation phase and be aware that this is not an easy time will.
- During and after the breakup, this man always has an obligation to his children.
- Not every man who cheats does so lightly. If another person can penetrate that far into an existing marriage, there have been problems beforehand.
- Both partners are always involved in the failure of a marriage. It is never just one partner to blame.
- Notice that the man is by no means going to part with his wife, and that you are being put off more and more, try to get out of the way. You're not worth being just the second wife. Break this bond and be open to a man who is not married.
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