He can't make up his mind
Do you live in a constant mess because there is a man in your life who cannot decide for or against you? Surely you suffer from this "emotional chaos" - if he can't make up his mind, do it. After all, it's your life, nobody has the right to destroy it.
Do you love a man who can't decide whether he wants to be with you? Maybe there is another woman - maybe he just doesn't want to commit. Anyway, the constant back and forth is sure to get on your nerves. Understandable!
Can't say what he wants?
Sometimes he wants, sometimes he doesn't: you can't rely on anything and never know exactly where you are?
- That must not become a permanent condition. Remember that a relationship should be built on mutual trust and consistency. Try to find a solution in a joint conversation.
- Don't fall for the same empty promises over and over again. It's very difficult, because when someone means something to you, you want to believe them.
- Too often you only see the good sides of the relationship - the memories seem to be limited to the good times. Everything that hurt and saddened you seems to be forgotten. Still, you have to make a decision.
- Think back to the bad days very consciously. Remember how many times you waited in vain. Think about your tears and how lonely and disappointed you felt in those moments. You don't deserve this!
When did a relationship fail? This question is very difficult to answer. …
Decide how to proceed
Do something good for yourself - just think about yourself. It's your life - choose it.
- Don't be afraid to make a decision. If you've tried everything but haven't changed, then seriously consider breaking up. Sometimes it is better to end something before it destroys your life.
- Don't let yourself feel guilty. You are not to blame for the messy situation. You wanted a relationship that would work and make you happy. And that also means that the person you give your love meet, unconditionally reciprocate and fully decide for you.
- If he can't - for whatever reason - then he's not the one for you. You have the right to make demands. You are the woman who wants to be with him, not his psychologist. You don't get paid for the therapy hours, if he doesn't respond to you, then every word is wasted.
If there's one thing in his life that is more important to him than you, assume that it is relationship has no future. You will be the separation overcome - even if it will be very difficult for you at the beginning.
