In love with your best friend

Being in love with your best friend is hard enough. If this is also taken, you face a real challenge

Seeing your best friend as a person

• If you are in love with your best friend, it can cause a lot of emotional chaos in you. That is why it is important to get some distance and look at things objectively.
• Think about what is important to you about your best friend as a person. What place does it have in your life and what would life be like without it? These questions are important to help you figure out what to do next.
• Also answer the following question honestly: Are you really in love with your best friend, or do you have her The feelings in question may only cease because they are forgiven and you fear that you may lose them could?

Dealing with the feelings of being in love

• If the answer to the questions shows that you are only afraid of losing your girlfriend, you can learn to deal with the feelings. You now know the reason for your feelings and you know that they will go away.
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• If your girlfriend is more important to you as a person in your life than as a relationship partner, then you will also be able to cope with the feelings. Keep in mind that the girlfriend stays in your life, while relationships fail more often.
• However, you may also have realized that not only are you in love, but that your best friend is the woman of your life. Then you need to be realistic about the extent to which your feelings will be reciprocated.
• If you can't stand around your girlfriend because she is always talking about her boyfriend, keep your distance. Meet up with other friends and take care of your own life again.
• If your best friend is the person you can talk to about anything, you should also talk to her about the fact that you are in love with her. Surely she won't run away, and neither will she Friendship let it break. On the contrary, you have expressed your feelings and that takes courage. On this basis you can find a solution together.

If you are in love with your best friend and she is taken, you can get to know the boyfriend too. Maybe you like him. Then just treat both of you to happiness.