He loves someone else
It can happen to any man at any time: he gets to know a new woman, meets with her, and at some point he realizes that he loves someone else. A separation is difficult even for whoever leaves, but you should be fair and honest.
There are many reasons why far more relationships fail today than they used to. The role of the woman, who is no longer financially dependent on her husband, is considered to be one of the reasons: In the past, she could not so easily part with her provider. But the demands on life and the fulfillment of lifelong dreams have also increased. Even so, the principle that in a really intact and happy one still applies relationship no one can break in. Regardless of whether he loves someone else or she has met someone, one should separation fair but consistent.
When you love someone else
- If he loves someone else and she reciprocates the feelings, in many cases a separation occurs, which is especially painful for the woman who is being abandoned. Honesty is important. If you are sure that you are in love and would like to live with your new partner out of your relationship, you should speak to your girlfriend or wife, the sooner the better. It will be a difficult conversation, no separation is easy. But the more open you are, the better the basis for an amicable parting.
- Once you've made your decision, you need to be consistent. Don't let compassion or responsibility change your mind. Follow your heart. Your former partner will survive the difficult time and at some point will be able to start a new life.
- Allow her to have a good and honest conversation, but back off if you find that your attempt at a friendly breakup is being exploited. Once you have drawn the line, you no longer have to be available to your former partner for meetings and phone calls, nor do you have to carry out repairs to your house or apartment. Stay ready to talk, but still draw boundaries. It is a difficult balancing act that you have to master.
The other woman has to accept the past
- If you have children with your former partner, you should try hard and maintain good relationships with her. Separation is difficult for every child, but when they notice that their parents are just arguing, it is especially bad. They also need time to get to know and accept the other woman in your life.
- Be patient with the mother of your children, but also with your children. Make an effort to deal with it in a blameless manner. When a little time has passed, many abandoned can come to terms with the breakup. If the first time was peaceful, a relationship can turn into a wonderful friendship.
- Your new partner shouldn't feel like the other woman in your life, she's your number one now, and she should be feeling it too. On the other hand, she must also accept your past and should try to build good and open relationships with your children. This, too, is an important basis for a new life together.
If the partner for life suddenly becomes the ex, a whole world breaks ...
If the first time after a breakup goes smoothly, many ex-couples manage to deal with each other sensibly. There are couples who have a lifetime Friendship maintain a group of friends or stay closely connected through the children. There is no shame in falling in love again, you are not the only one who has this happening to. But try to ensure a consistent, yet fair separation from your previous partner. The future will thank you.
