Compliments to a woman
One or two compliments are helpful in getting a hit with flirting. But good compliments are an art in themselves: if you overdo it, it seems insincere or intrusive, if you are too cautious, the flattery will not be recognized as such. With a few tricks you can win the affection of the person you are talking to.
Some compliments are too thick
If men try to conquer a woman with clumsy sayings, bankruptcy is inevitable. It's no secret that dubious compliments like "You must be the real cause of global warming" don't work. Likewise, some compliments are meant nicely, but applied too thickly. Nobody takes "most beautiful woman in the world" or "angel fallen from heaven" seriously. The woman will react annoyed and not flattered.
Absolute no-go - focusing on the woman's body
Is the woman very attractive? It is still an absolute no-go. B. to draw attention to their "sharp bottom" or their large stem. Even if this is the case - don't give yourself such "compliments". If you are genuinely interested, you should never make a woman feel like she is reduced to her looks. The woman concludes, out of superficial compliments, that it is most likely just a one night adventure.
Convince a woman with charm and wit
If you want to break the ice with a casual statement, choose a fun variant. An example of this is, "Hello, I noticed you didn't notice me." This is true too a pre-formulated saying, the addressed woman can certainly not smile hold back. This is how you get into the conversation and that is the main thing. It's more of an indirect compliment. By addressing you, you make it clear that you noticed the woman and that you are interested.
Scoring points with women with individual compliments
If you don't believe in ready-made sayings, then ingenuity and courage are required. Do not hesitate to admit if a detail about her or her style is eye-catching or if you like her style. It is important that you appear self-confident and that the compliment is individual. You can attest the lady a special enthusiasm in conversation, praise her humor or casually mention her infectious laugh. With this you flatter every woman without being intrusive. However, the correct dosage is required here, less is more.
Don't be stingy with compliments from your partner
You should also compliment your partner regularly. Emphasize e.g. B. What makes her so attractive or that you like an item of clothing on her very much. Especially a compliment about your friend's quirks that she doesn't like about herself is heartwarming. If you tell her how "sweet and defiant she gets when she's hungry," your friend is sure to be flattered. Such very personal compliments also have the side effect that your partner feels completely accepted and loved not in spite of but because of your quirks. Regularly highlight special characteristics, because women are often too critical of themselves. Compliments look like little pats.
Regardless of whether you are just doing nice small talk or trying to get the other person off you ...
Individual compliments - given in the right place - can work wonders and are very attractive. But pre-formulated sayings also help to break the ice. It's just a matter of the right tone and timing.
