"My friend thinks others are pretty!"
If you have a friend who makes no secret of the fact that he thinks other women are beautiful, then this may not always be pleasant for you. However, that doesn't have to be a cause for concern. Learn how to deal with it and, if necessary, talk to your partner about it.
When the partner thinks other women are pretty
If your boyfriend openly admits that he thinks other women are pretty, too, then there is no reason to lose your nerve or be jealous right away. Because if you're honest, you think other men - besides your partner - are pretty too. If a person looks good, it is obvious and can be noticed. That's why your boyfriend loves you no less. It becomes problematic when your boyfriend starts making comparisons between you and other women. Whether he is doing this consciously or unconsciously, in which case you should talk to your partner about it.
Having a conversation with the friend - tips
- Don't fall in with the door right away. If you want to discuss a problem with your friend, do it in a relaxed manner. Cook something nice and create a peaceful atmosphere.
- Address the problem directly. Don't talk about the bush. Tell him that you mind if he keeps telling you that he thinks other women are pretty or attractive too. You can also tell him that you feel hurt. If he cares about you, he will hold back in the future.
- Accusations and reproaches should be avoided. If your partner feels attacked, he will go into a kind of defensive position and shoot back. So you should avoid making him feel like he can't do anything right anyway. Such a conversation usually does not end well and does not lead to the result you want.
Tip: Before you lose your head over a few remarks from your partner, you should first consider whether it is really that important for you to discuss such a topic. In fact, you should trust your boyfriend and yours love believe.
Jealousy doesn't help anyone and will definitely lead to the end of the relationship at some point. …