Lies in the relationship

Lies are very harmful, if not deadly, to you relationship. In general, everyone in life should be able to forgive, but be careful not to give in too much. Your partner could take this as a carte blanche and take advantage of your indulgence. There are also relationships that have been destroyed by just one lie. But it doesn't have to go that far. Talk to each other and try to regain confidence.

How to deal with your partner's lies

• Lies within the partnership are a very big breach of trust. They hurt and create a great deal of insecurity. The first time you notice your partner is lying, it is a good idea to ask them to speak to them immediately.
• Tell him you noticed his lies and ask for an explanation. Don't get loud, abusive, or irrelevant. This will make the situation even more difficult. Your partner could pull away.
• Lies have different weights. If you have found out that your partner is cheating on you, it is certainly more painful than if your partner kept a beer evening with his buddies from you. Make it clear to him that you no longer want to be lied to and that you want trust in the relationship.
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Restore trust in the relationship

• Tell your partner that you will forgive them and that you will no longer be angry if the lie is a one-off and you did not find the reason so grave. Build trust by asking him to be honest about it in the future and share his thoughts and wishes with you.


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• Lies can arise out of uncertainty, or your partner doesn't care how you feel about it. He wants to pursue his interests. You should try to find out what the cause of the lies is by talking to them and react accordingly. Try to take the uncertainty out of your partner. Show yourself tolerant and let him go if he wants to do something alone. However, if there is intent or callousness behind the lies, you should not be indulgent, but determinedly demand that your partner change.

If there is really another woman, you need to have a serious conversation with your partner. You should ask that he end the liaison, otherwise, think about the consequences even if you find it difficult. Even if you lie all the time, you should think about your partnership. If you keep giving in, your partner may lose respect for you. This would not be a good basis for the partnership to continue.