"Under all pig"

If your friend or one of your friends behaves or behaves in public in public. behaves quite wrong, there is one thing you should do first: keep calm.

Do not behave yourself "under all pig"

• When one of the friends or even the partner behaves in public under all sucks and behaves really wrong, then maybe you only want one thing: preferably right away be. But since spontaneous "beaming away" does not usually work so easily, you will need a different strategy to deal with the situation.
• It will be of little help if you directly reprimand and admonish your friend that he is improperly behaving. Because with such a public reprimand, he may feel like a small child.
• First, try to get rid of the embarrassment of your friend's behavior internally so that you don't feel embarrassed by it. It can be helpful if you imagine a glass wall that stands between you and your friend. You can still hear and see him, but you are protected from his behavior.
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• This makes it easier not to let yourself be drawn into the bad behavior of your own friend and even end up behaving like a pig.


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Keeping your own feelings under control

• If your friend's behavior becomes too embarrassing, you should - after you have gained the necessary inner distance - try to "defuse" the situation.
• For example, maybe there is a way to end the embarrassment. For example, if your friend is dancing drunk and naked at a party, lead him off the dance floor and get him somewhere to sleep in.
• It is also better if you can save yourself the possible annoyance about the embarrassment until you have resolved the situation.

It can be more than embarrassing if your own friend behaves in public "under the hood". Then simply sinking into the ground yourself will usually not work.