Falling in love again shortly after the breakup
You are floating on cloud 9 and are completely in love. The only supposed problem is that the separation from the ex was only a short time ago. What is the best way to handle this situation?
Is it really love?
One separation can lead to heartbreak. If you've just come out of one Relationship comes and quickly falls in love again, this can cause problems.
It is important to be clear about whether the new crush really is Love is. It can happen that you feel bad or even inferior after a breakup. It is human to seek confirmation or comfort - perhaps directly in a new partner.
You long for a deep connection and a trustworthy person with whom you can talk about your new life circumstances. This feeling of familiarity that you previously experienced in your relationship is now missing and the gap that has arisen needs to be filled.
Especially in the time after a separation, the mood is clouded and the ego is bruised. You want to feel safe again and long for physical contact. Of course, it makes sense to jump straight into the next relationship and unconsciously disregard whether it is really love.
The most important thing is to make it clear to yourself whether you just want to replace your old partner as quickly as possible because you miss the closeness, or whether you are really in love. This is also the fairest thing to the new person.
Most people have to experience the end of a relationship, a separation, often several times in their lives...
What to do if there is pressure from outside?
Of course, it can happen that you actually fall in love again immediately after a breakup and that's completely okay. In this situation, you don't have to answer to anyone, because who you prefer to spend your time with is ultimately nobody's business.
You are newly single and therefore free to act. Of course, it can still happen that you have to listen to derogatory comments from those around you about how you can fall in love again so quickly.
But sometimes it is also the case that you notice already in the relationship that you are growing apart and have been secretly thinking about a separation for a long time. In such a case, you can of course open up to a new partner immediately after the separation.
In any case, you don't have to feel guilty and you can simply let others talk, because only you know what makes you happiest in this situation. However, sometimes emotions can still blind you to the obvious. It is also worth listening to the advice of family or close friends.
What to do if your ex immediately gets into a new relationship?
It can also happen that your ex quickly meets someone new after the breakup. It is also okay and normal to feel jealous or neglected.
Try to take some distance and concentrate on other things - that's best for you. There is no reason to be mad at your ex because it is his/her right to fall in love again. Additionally, there is no general rule for how long someone has to be separated to have a new partner. As some time passes, the situation becomes easier and easier.
If you are sure that you do not want to replace anyone but have true feelings, nothing will stop you from enjoying the new adventure and fresh love. Focus on the essentials. You don't have to adhere to social norms that dictate when you can and can't fall in love again.
