Here's how to get him to write to you

Basic requirements for him to get in touch

Of course, you have to have been in contact with a man before to get him to write to you (again). Maybe the communication went well with him at the beginning - later on his messages became less and less. In the worst case scenario, there is now radio silence.

First of all: stop constantly contacting him on your own initiative, because you don't need to beg for a man's attention!

Messages men write when they are in love

1. How are you doing???
2. I was just thinking about you...
3. I wish you were here ...


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Have you been on a date and now he doesn't contact you anymore? If you don't know how to...

4. Sorry that I didn't get in touch right away. I had no internet connection!
5. Can I call you ???
6. I would like to meet you ...

If he doesn't answer again

There can be many reasons why a man stops contacting you even though he likes you. He may not want to pressure you. But maybe he is also one of those cautious men who doesn't want to appear too intrusive towards a woman. He feels something for you, but may be worried about overwhelming you with too many messages. Another reason could be that he simply wants to wait until he is sure that you are also interested in him. Nothing is worse for a man than getting a basket.

1. If he doesn't respond, please stop contacting him constantly. Instead, give him time to miss you. He needs to learn to appreciate you.
2. Just be confident, because nothing is more attractive than a positive charisma and healthy self-confidence. Anyone who feels comfortable in their skin radiates outwardly and is very attractive.
3. Only do what you like! Maybe he plays soccer or loves rock music. This should never be a reason for you to do the same - just to please him. You only appear authentic if you devote yourself to your own interests instead of conforming to them or even pretending.

   

4. Keep at least a few secrets to yourself, because sharing your every thought with him doesn't seem very mysterious to a man. In the long run it can even seem boring. Why should he contact you if you've already told him everything about yourself??? However, inconspicuous information about yourself is more effective. If he is interested in you, he will definitely contact you to find out more about you.
5. Make your own plans and certainly don't postpone them because of him if he suddenly shows up. Just turn the tables! This shows him that you also have your own life and plans. If the date is really important to him, he can postpone his plans for you.
6. Be patient - especially in the getting-to-know-you phase. It's understandable that you would like to introduce him to your parents straight away or introduce him to your circle of friends. Because he should feel that you have expectations of him that he cannot (yet) fulfill at this time or maybe he doesn't want to, he will probably withdraw and stop contacting you. Of course, this cannot be a permanent situation on his part.
7. Maybe learn to let it go! If you have written to him several times and he still hasn't answered you or he doesn't have time for you, you should objectively perceive these important signs. He probably doesn't want to know anything about you. No reason to worry about it. Just ditch this man. You can't force feelings. It's better to be open to new acquaintances. This is the only way you have a chance of finding the right man for you.

As a rule, if a man has even a minimal interest in you, he will definitely contact you in some way. If he hasn't contacted you for a while, he will explain to you the reason for his behavior. He will probably apologize and want to meet up with you. If that's not the case, then you'd better check it off straight away because you need to get the attention or Love a man doesn't deserve.