Is she keeping her distance?

You may find this helpful thought first: Distance is not something bad per se, but something useful in itself, something that can protect everyone. Do not feel offended. Take a close look at the situation and have confidence - especially in yourself. Your crush may be the most precious and important thing in your life, but you still need to stay important to yourself. Does she keep you at a distance, but otherwise treat you well? Then it is definitely worth investing patience and feelings.

If she keeps her distance, it can have several causes

• Maybe your crush just needs some time. Some people keep their distance because they want to get to know the other first. Then she will keep her distance, but answer your attempts at contact positively - meet you, answer your emails, etc.
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• Perhaps you were too quick in your approach and scared them off? Try to calm down and take it slower. Try to give her time at your joint pace relationship to design. Don't get dramatic right away.
• Use the time to review your own feelings: are you just running after her because she's so brittle or do you actually like her? Are you hoping for ultimate salvation from boredom or loneliness, or are you actually interested in her? Try to be good to yourself and answer these questions honestly.

Does she keep you at a distance and treat you badly? Does she make you look ridiculous, does she write you mean letters? Then you should look for a challenging hobby that will distract you for a while and keep your distance yourself. No matter who she is, no one should seduce you into ridiculing and neglecting yourself. The stronger you get inside, the happier and more balanced you will become - with or without her.