"I'm always just the buddy guy"
If you're wondering, "Why am I always just the buddy?", There could be several causes. How you can be desirable to others, read here!
Always start with the inside
- Surely some people think that the change from the buddy type to the desirable person is feasible within a short time and only through a visual change. But you have to start changing the way you feel about people, and about yourself in particular.
- Ask friends you have a strong bond with what makes you unattractive to other people on a relationship level. It is probably inconspicuous clothing or your hairstyle. Some people do not want to submit to any dictates of society, in which only beauty is decisive. But remember that you are first perceived visually and that there is no second chance for a first impression.
- It may also be due to your shyness. Fighting these is not easy. Train yourself to be confident by moving more around people. Also seek conversation with strangers. You will see that your self-esteem increases over time. This is very important in order to be attractive to other people.
Remove externally from the buddy type
- You can stay true to your style and don't have to change your looks to be perceived differently. Rather, you should underline your look and set accents.
- As a man, you can make a difference with a new, modern hairstyle. Women very often look first in the face of men. Therefore, a well-groomed appearance is always part of your change. Clothing is of secondary importance, but it also has to be clean.
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- If you as a woman are perceived even as a buddy type, then use your feminine charms. With a light make-up and some mascara, your guy will come across as much fresher and more attractive. Wear body-hugging clothing.
Signal willingness to commit
- Show that you are single and in a flirtatious mood. Take the initiative when it comes to this to flirt and getting to know each other.
- Of course, you should also go where something is going on. Spend the weekends in bars and discos instead of the cinemas or at home.
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