He doesn't care about me

Why you are interested in him

Have you already wondered why you are interested in precisely that man who, in turn, shows no sign of interest? You should - because we humans sometimes tick in such a way that we are particularly interested in what we cannot have, on the contrary to things or things. Men who might be interested in us. But be careful: you are setting a trap for yourself and your behavior will most likely not make you happy.

• Do you see the man who doesn't seem to care about you as a challenge? Maybe this is just a game for you - as soon as he showed interest, your interest would be over the top. If so, think about whether this game is not draining you too much of your energy.

• Perhaps you feel offended by the man's lack of interest in your self-esteem and now you just want him all the more to care for you. Stop the children's games - you are good as you are and don't need confirmation.

• Of course, it is also possible that you have fallen head over heels in love with a man and just can't get him out of your head. But no matter what you do, he still cares little or nothing about you.

So that he is no longer disinterested

Could it be that you are more or less like a gray mouse who is hiding and only secretly interested in a man without having given any signs? Then "signs" is the keyword. Of course, you shouldn't overdo it or even get pushy - but just try to get into a conversation with him. Often situations arise that are very simple - e.g. B. go for a quick coffee, make small talk. You can also mention that you are single to let him know that you are free. In this way you will at least once notice whether the interest on your part will persist and whether he will ultimately be interested in you will become clear over time.

• If you already know this man better and what he likes - show yourself interested. This is sure to get his attention, and if your interest is sincere, great conversations can result.

• In no case should you throw yourself at the chosen man, because in most cases men still follow the principle of the Stone Age: the men hunt, the women gather. Many men just want to conquer women and not allow themselves to be conquered. So give the man a reason to be interested and leave enough room for curiosity.

All of these tactics can help you get the man interested, but whether he is interested enough in you, for example. B. one relationship Being able to go along with you is not looked up in any book - you have to find that out for yourself.