Where to go on the first date
Going to the cinema or a restaurant on your first date is more than absurd these days. But where should you go then? A few well-intentioned recommendations will surely help you to find a romantic and at the same time unusual meeting place on your first date in a creative way.
Romantic meeting places on the first date
Since the classics are ruled out as a meeting point for the reasons mentioned above, the question is where to go then. Generally goes with the first Date simply nothing about a clear starry sky to create an open and romantic mood.
- If there is the possibility to meet outside in good weather in a beautiful place with lots of nature all around for sunset, you should definitely take advantage of this.
- Do you have a nice park nearby? Then pack some nice treats and spend your first date there. You can also take a few steps here after a small snack, which is very romantic, especially at dusk or in the dark, as parks are usually very attractively lit.
- If you can't think of anything, that's not a problem, because it can also be very nice to go together in silence and enjoy the beautiful atmosphere of the evening.
- If you meet "outdoors", make sure you wear appropriate shoes and clothing. Nothing is more uncomfortable than going on a hike in the forest or in the park in 10 cm high heels.
- When it is raining or cold, a nice café or a quiet bar can still be an excellent meeting point, allowing people to get to know each other in a pleasant environment.
- Would you like pure romance? Then a date at the edge of the forest might also be an option. Plan a nice picnic here with fruit, sparkling wine and small snacks.
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Meeting outside on a first date always creates a very special and exciting atmosphere. Avoid choosing a very secluded or deserted place in the open air, as this can quickly arouse suspicion. Wherever you plan to go, it ultimately comes down to how you prepare for the first meeting.
Where not to go
No meeting point is wrong per se on the first date. An exciting and romantic mood can develop even in the most boring and uncomfortable places. However, if you're thinking of where to go, avoid the following "classics".
- Avoid meeting at the cinema on your first date. You can hardly talk here - and even if you do, the mutual perception is usually distorted by the mood of the film.
- Going to a club or nightclub is also inappropriate on a first date. Here, too, you can hardly get to know each other properly due to the loud music and the many people around you.
- A meal together in a beautiful restaurant can be very romantic, but due to the constraint it often brings with it a certain tension and insecurity.
- However, it is often inappropriate to suggest your own home as a meeting point, since women in particular often do not want to go to "the lion's den" immediately.
Your first date brings you joy and worry
- You will master your first date if you prepare a little. Basically, you should keep in mind that the first impression is decisive. That is why it makes sense in any case that you leave your beloved Hawaiian shirt, the haute couture and especially your prêt-à-porter fashion in the closet.
- As long as you don't know which flavor your counterpart prefers, you should choose according to your type appear in chic-elegant, sporty-elegant or casual-elegant clothes, with a little applied perfume, respectively. After shave. Always remember the principle: less is more!
Other authors: Meggi Erwig, Micaela Dörr
