In love with the colleague
Many people have already found their dream partner, but others are still looking. Falling in love with a colleague is not particularly far off, since you spend most of the day at work and often only get to see your colleagues. Are you in love with a colleague? Sometimes it's not that easy to deal with.
Secretly in love? - That's how you deal with it
- Take your feelings seriously. It is very likely that you will get to know your dream partner at work, as you spend most of the day here and also deal with colleagues.
- Realize what your feelings really are like. Observe your behavior over a longer period of time to be sure whether you are really in love with a colleague. Sometimes it is perhaps a first feeling or a "falling short", but then, after a closer look, it turns out that it is not quite so.
- Don't talk about it with your other coworkers. In an office or at work, rumors can arise very quickly. So be careful who you confide in.
- Talk to a good friend about your problems and describe your feelings. It often helps to discuss this with someone you know.
- Be very sure that you are really, seriously, in love before you approach the coworker.
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- Try to approach your colleague cautiously and do not rush into anything.
- Find out whether the colleague already has a girlfriend or a wife or is perhaps also interested in someone. So you know whether you might have a chance.
- During an evening together with several colleagues in the office, it would be possible to approach your dream partner in order to have a first private conversation. Here you can take a closer look at the potential partner and talk about other things than just work.
- If you have the feeling that the colleague is not necessarily averse, speak to him directly and ask for one Date. Invite him to the cinema or to eat.
- Watch his reaction to your invitation, this will reveal a lot about his attitude.
- Do not be disappointed if the colleague cancels the appointment or is not interested. At least you tried.
- Don't be overconfident when it comes to a date, it doesn't have to be a date relationship develop. Take it all slowly and see what comes.
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