"I am boring"
If you've been labeled boring before, it can be very hurtful. The question: "Am I really bored?" you should then clarify honestly with yourself and possibly make yourself a little more interesting with the appropriate tips.
I'm bored - what should I do?
Nobody in this world is boring per se. Every man and woman is unique. You only get bored when you call yourself that. So if you have the feeling: "I'm bored" then you should first see where this feeling comes from.
- First try to answer the following questions with yourself: What exactly should be boring and uninteresting about you? How do you define boredom for yourself? Are these supposed to be certain character traits or behaviors that are supposed to make you boring?
- Who have said this to you before and in what context did it happen? Did you ask what exactly these people mean by that?
- How would you like to be so that you don't say "I'm boring" yourself? Try to be as specific as possible: What exactly would have to happen in order for you to be more comfortable with your own skin feel?
- Answering these questions will help you understand exactly what you consider boring and therefore unlovable.
In many situations it helps to be conformist and not funny. Indeed …
The background is often a self-esteem problem
If you have a thought, "I am bored," it may indicate low self-worth.
- You only find yourself boring if you disagree with certain things that characterize you. If you say to yourself, "I'm bored," you are not doing yourself any good.
- Often people are considered uninteresting who do not have an opinion of their own and who often say "yes and amen" to everything.
- If this applies to you too, then try more to be aware of your own needs and desires first.
- If you name them, then that can be the first step towards more self-esteem and thus towards a more "interesting" personality. Share your thoughts with friends and family. Reject tasks that are getting too much for you and say "no" more often to things that are of no interest to you.
These innovations are difficult to implement at first because you usually experience a change in your environment. Nevertheless, you should try this step-by-step in order to regain respect from others and thus no longer be considered boring.
