Contact with ex despite friend

Contact with the ex-boyfriend

First, ask yourself why you are keeping in touch with your ex. Despite having a new friend, you still talk to your ex on the phone and go out together. Why?

• If you were the one who ended the relationship, this can be misunderstood. Think about whether your ex is still hoping.
• You always got on well, you might say to yourself. But don't get too confidential. Always clarify such things with your new partner. Because that's where it belongs.

Now what if they both, the end of the relationship wanted to. Does contact with the ex work better despite a friend? That can be a good transition, especially if you still get along well. However, as soon as a new partner is there, you should rather use your energies for the new partnership.

Despite friend still meet

What do you pursue if you continue to meet the ex despite a boyfriend? See how your new partner is doing with it. How does he like it when you are still in contact with the ex? Because, as I said, such a contact offers a lot of projection surface.

• If you keep dating your ex, your new partner could be jealous and wondering what the two of them are up to. Especially in difficult phases, it may lead to misunderstandings that unnecessarily burden your new relationship.
• If there are problems, discuss and resolve them with the new partner. You could also call in a neutral interlocutor. But don't go to the ex with it. Even if you still have contact with the ex through having children, you shouldn't.
• And yet there are also these exceptions that can justify a deeper conversation with the ex. Especially when something like this develops spontaneously. And if you stay clear inside, you will know exactly how far to go.