My ex has a new one
When a relationship falls apart, it hurts. You have loved each other and for a certain reason this love is no longer present - at least with one of the two partners. If one of the ex-partners then also has a new boyfriend or girlfriend, jealousy quickly comes into play.
It's a shame when you consider that the two of you loved each other once. love means allowing the other to be happy. If that doesn't work together, sooner or later a new partner will be found in your life. Your ex show up.
The ex - a friend
Many couples who split up want to be in Friendship diverge. A nice idea, but very rarely feasible in practice.
- One of the two partners is the one separation assumed the other is automatically injured. It's not a good basis for friendship.
- Even if the two of you separated by mutual agreement, this separation first requires distance. Of relationship To turn into friendship is not possible, the psyche must first realize that the person is no longer "the one".
- "My ex and I can do it" - everyone thinks they can do it themselves. Nevertheless, take a break, at least a little.
After a breakup, there is often a desire for friendship. But should you ...
The ex - a friend
Many couples who break up want to break up in friendship. A nice idea, but very rarely feasible in practice.
- The separation started from one of the two partners, the other is automatically hurt. It's not a good basis for friendship.
- Even if the two of you separated by mutual agreement, this separation first requires distance. Going from relationship to friendship is not possible, the psyche must first realize that the person is no longer "the one".
- "My ex and I can do it" - everyone thinks they can do it themselves. Nevertheless, take a break, at least a little.
Treat your ex to happiness with the new boyfriend
If you still care about your ex - in any way - you will "have to" treat her to her new happiness.
- Imagine that your ex is a wonderful woman, but you couldn't make her as happy as she deserved.
- Remember that you are a wonderful man, but your ex couldn't make you happy like you deserved it.
- Then tell yourself that your ex's new boyfriend may already be able to make her so happy and that she deserves it.
- If that's not enough, remember that you will soon meet someone new (and your ex may not find it easy to let you go again).
Granting your ex a new happiness is not easy, but it could be the cornerstone of a real friendship.
