I want him back

What you need:

• patience
• creativity

If you want him again

• The most important thing if you want him back is to bring enough time and discipline with you. Hasty behavior and spontaneous, emotional reactions are usually counterproductive.

• Show your ex how much they still mean to you with small gifts. Send him a film related to your relationship send flowers, music, worry dolls, key rings, poems, letters, whatever seems important and right to you. Make sure, however, that it doesn't look too cheesy and restrictive.

• It is also important not to ensnare the ex too aggressively and clumsily. You have a much better chance of getting it back if you make yourself scarce. In this way, your ex may notice how much he misses you and can clarify his feelings.

• Be "aloof" and still be sensitive. Show on the one hand that you are fine without him, but on the other hand you really enjoyed your time with him and that you still think about him a lot.
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• Perhaps you can arrange a chance meeting or meetings if you want him back. In no case should it be noticed that you planned the meeting to get him back. Make yourself particularly pretty for this, but not in such a way that it looks fake and fake. Put on clothes you know they'll love you, this will increase your chances of getting them back.


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• If all of this doesn't help, you can also go a step further and flirt with other men. If he still feels something for you, it is very likely that you will get him back through a little jealousy. Do not do this too aggressively, but in a charming, covert way. That annoys him more than anything.

So he's guaranteed not to come back

• In no case should you run after him like a puppy, even though you want him back. Show him that you care about him and that you enjoyed your time with him, but keep the distance necessary to show him that you no longer belong to him. Men are hunters and gatherers, so women who seem "out of reach" are more interesting. Don't show him that you want him back.

• You must never act in short-circuit reactions. To get your ex back, you mustn't make him jealous scenes, make him confessions of love all the time, or terrorize him with phone calls.

• Another point of how you won't get him back is trying to make him all too ostentatious and offensively jealous with other men. In no case should you appear cheap and easily "accessible" to other men. Do not accept unambiguous offers from other men, even if you think you can comfort yourself with them. So you don't get it back, but rather scare it off.