Friend often relocates me
If your friend transfers you a lot, you might be wondering why that is and what you can do about it. Find out how serious he is about your relationship.
If you are frequently transferred by your friend, there are certainly deeper reasons for this. everyone can forget an appointment or be late, or a Date has to be canceled because something important has come up. This has certainly already happened to you and you should understand it. However, if it happens more often that you have to wait for your friend, you should find out the cause of his behavior.
Find an open conversation with your friend
- If your friend transfers you frequently, you should first seek an open conversation. Ask him why he just forgets to meet you. Perhaps you will be able to find out in the conversation whether he is simply clumsy or whether there is more to it.
- Make it very clear to him that you no longer want to be transferred because it is hurtful, but also because the time is too good for you to have to wait again and again for him. Announce that the next time you will not wait any longer and that you will do something else.
When you are transferred again
- Call him and remind him of your conversation. Ask if he would like to keep the appointment and set a time window. Within this window he should come to the agreed meeting point.
- Alternatively, you can also write an SMS that you will no longer wait for him from now on. Set another date and back off for now.
If you feel that your boyfriend doesn't love you as much as he used to, then ...
Sometimes the careless handling of appointments is also intentional. Perhaps your friend feels close to you and in the relationship no longer comfortable with you, but does not have the courage to address this openly or to part with you. If a conversation didn't bring any success or a little clarification, you should reconsider the relationship on your own. Stop making appointments and withdraw a little. In any case, if your friend misses you, he will be in touch.
