Dissatisfaction in the relationship
Dissatisfaction in a relationship is like a creeping poison that afflicts partnerships until they break down in the end. For this reason, if there is any cause for dissatisfaction, it is important to take immediate action so that the relationship has a chance.
Most relationships do not break because you no longer love each other, but because creeping dissatisfaction poisons life together.
Unprocessed dissatisfaction leads to frustration
- Don't overlook things that make you unhappy.
- Address issues that appeal to you relationship dislike.
- Do not swallow anything out of wrong consideration, otherwise it will accumulate unprocessed in your memory and will come up again at an inopportune time, all the worse.
- Make sure you understand what you expect from your partner.
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Heal the relationship through constructive conversation
- Do not let frustration arise first, but clarify early on things that you dislike about the other person.
- Talk to each other, but correctly and, above all, constructively.
- Most conversations fail because they are conducted in a destructive manner, for example through mutual accusations.
- Take time for each other.
- Show each other that you care.
- Do not be resentful: what has been clarified should also be considered done and should not be discussed again and again at inappropriate times.
In this way, you can have a constructive conversation in the event of dissatisfaction in the relationship
- Use “I-messages”: say things like “I feel in the relationship…”, “Me I wish from you that you... "," I have the impression that... "," It affects me like... "and so on Further. This is how you make it clear to the partner what you expect from the relationship. There is a lot the other person cannot know if you do not express it.
- Avoid "you messages": do not say things like "You never do ...", "You always do ...", "You hardly pay any attention to me ...", "You only think of yourself ..." and so on. You are reproachful and hurt the other. They do nothing to clarify the situation.
It's not a sign of love and respect, if you spare the other with your wishes out of wrong consideration. On the contrary, if you tell yourself from the start how you feel about your relationship you can more easily coordinate both ideas. This is a good prerequisite for long love happiness.
