Proof of love after the breakup
If you get proof of love from your ex-partner after the breakup, he cannot let go and wants to fight for you. It is up to you to decide whether you want to give in to the advertising or whether you are already finished with the relationship.
After a separation it happens again and again that the abandoned partner cannot come to terms with it and makes attempts that relationship but to revive it. Men can also be very inventive here. If you have tokens of love from your Ex partner you should consider carefully whether or not you want to go into it.
When you receive tokens of love, decide how you feel
- Proofs of love from the ex are not always welcome. You should consider whether or not you want to reciprocate. If you have struggled and got through the breakup and do not feel good thinking about your ex-partner, you should reject the advertising in a friendly but very firm manner.
- On the other hand, it can also be that you are happy about the tokens of love and would like to reciprocate them. If you are fine with this and you can feel that your ex still loves you, you should give them a sign to that effect. A phone call or an e-mail exchange is sometimes better for a start than if you meet up and spend the night together. This can create more uncertainty than clarity.
If the tokens are good for you, accept them and not think about them so much. Try to get to know each other again and dissuade your old relationship and that too New beginning not. Of course it is important to talk about the problems, but there is no point in discussing them in great detail. A new beginning only makes sense if you both still love each other and manage to draw a line under the relationship.
Sometimes a breakup should stay that way
- Even if you really want your relationship to restart, you should weigh the pros and cons carefully. Think about the problems that led to the breakup and see if they could be changed. Also try to analyze whether these problems can be changed.
- Sometimes it is better if you don't want to get into your ex-partner's referral. If you feel happy and free without him, you should say clearly and firmly that you want to reject the tokens of love. After that, you should not accept them any more.
Relationship problems can be very stressful. If you just argue all the time or ...
If the advertising becomes too intense for you, you cannot avoid making a very clear and precise announcement. In very persistent cases, you can file a complaint. Then your ex-partner can be forbidden by law to contact you.
